Five Principles to Improve the Quality of Marriage
In order to improve the quality of marriage, the following issues should be paid attention to in the life of husband and wife: 1. Don’t make the spouse feel lonely.
If the couple lacks friendly and friendly exchanges, loneliness will emerge spontaneously.
Some scholars have found that if one of the husbands and wives replenishes their productivity to work.
While ignoring the concern for the spouse, the result will be a coldness in the sexual relationship between the spouse and the couple.
Where possible, new sexual relationships are sought.
The sexual life between husband and wife is the bond that maintains the love between husband and wife; it is not only physical intercourse, but also accompanied by emotional communication.
2. Don’t make life monotonous Dr. Sandford has pointed out in his book “Adjusting Sexual Life in Middle Ages” that monotonous boredom is the cause of emotional changes.
After a few years of marriage, enthusiasm begins to cool down, and there is no longer a mysterious temptation to each other in terms of body. If the couple cannot explore and find a new and more satisfying lifestyle, some unwilling people will look for an alien momentJoy.
3. Pay attention to the spouse’s feelings. There are too many quarrels between husband and wife. If the so-called “big quarrel is three or six, small quarrels exist every day”, it will hurt the relationship and create a gap.
“Mourning is greater than heart death.” When someone suffers from injury and becomes intolerable, he will lose confidence in marriage.
4, correct handling of sexual life between husband and wife improper handling of sexual life, will also lay the seeds of sin for affair.
In this regard, women seem to have more responsibilities.
Generally speaking, men’s desire for sex is stronger than women’s. Sometimes, in order to get a chance for sex, they have to sacrifice themselves before their wives.
Some women discover this secret and regard sexual life as a means of coercion and opposition, but when they are proud of themselves, boredom and resentment are quietly rooted in their husband’s consciousness.
5. Give full freedom to divorce Some social psychologists believe that from the analysis of the actual situation, the main reason for the increase in extramarital love is the lack of true freedom of divorce.
The concept of divorce in today’s society is still very old. Some marriages that have been “dead”, because of restrictions from various aspects, feel that the cost of divorce is too large and discouraged.
Therefore, the full freedom of divorce is also an important factor in reducing the phenomenon of extramarital affairs and improving the stability of marriage.